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  • http://egoist.blogspot.com Martin Lindeskog

    Cindy,

    Plenty of food for thought here! I think that you have an natural exchange of links after you have established a relation by reading the other party’s blog, commented on it, started a conversation via email, Twitter, etc.
    .-= Martin Lindeskog´s last blog ..Gates and Freedom of Speech =-.

    • http://cindyking.biz Cindy

      Hi Martin,

      I find that the people who ask me “how to do social media” do not “get” what social networking is about. Let’s face it, some people are better business networkers than others in the offline world. And some people are downright awkward.

      These link exchange requests might be OK in some circumstances, but many of the ones I receive are a bit awkward. Even the “personalized” emails have a spam feel about them. There seems to be a desire to link to anyone out there. But what about the reason for being online in the first place?

      Things evolve fast though. It’ll be fun to see what I’ll be doing next year :)

  • http://closingbigger.net Shane Gibson

    Cindy,

    I find those requests awkward as well. Too many links on a blogroll can create too much noise for your audience. Also most links on “links pages” have a low Google page rank because few people actually visit them or link to them. I think a better way to do it, is to link to what you like, and if they find out and read your blog, and they like it, you may get a link back.

    I agree with you in regards to where we invest our time. Add value, go comment and promote other people, build community and the community will promote you ( and link to you as well).

    As usual, great blog post.
    .-= Shane Gibson´s last blog ..Free 28 Days to Better Selling Program =-.

    • http://cindyking.biz Cindy

      Shane,

      The community aspect is so true. Blogs are social media platforms so “community” is the driving factor. Link exchanges by themselves are not “community” enough.

  • http://www.WanderingEducators.com jessiev

    this is very interesting, cindy.

    our policy: we don’t have a blog roll but we are happy to feature (email interview) sites that we think would be of interest to our readers. i think that this would be a great way to educate a whole new audience about a site.

    often i am surprised, that when someone asks for a link xc, and i feature their site on ours, and we don’t get a mention on their site (promoting the article) or a blog roll link back. we DO get content to share with our readers, but there is absolutely no reciprocation. do they think that our site won’t be of interest to their readers? and if so, why the contact in the first place?

    great discussion.
    .-= jessiev´s last blog ..Foodie Finds: Best Place to Eat in Beaufort, SC =-.

    • http://cindyking.biz Cindy

      Jessiev,

      I love your interview tactic and definitely prefer this way of sharing links.

      I think “link exchanges” feature on lists of things to do to build SEO. Many of the requests I get appear to be actions on a checklist. They are asking 10 people a day for the next month type of thing. That might be why you don’t get the interaction after the interviews… because it’s just one action on a checklist and not a “real networking” mindset.

      I don’t have time for many, but I really appreciate the small networking groups I belong to and I think this is where people learn what is good to do and what comes across as out of place.

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